(Saturday, October 25, 2008/1:33 AM)
Alright, here comes my post on my criteria for my future girlfriend! Everyone's wondering "WHEN ARE YOU FRIGGIN" GONNA GET UR FIRST GF!?", so I'm obliged to educate u guys on that. =P I reckon it's gonna be awkward for me, so please be supportive. IN THE RIGHT WAY! =)
This may sound a lil' rigid and stupid to some people, but I'm gonna put points to each category which I'm gonna assess potential girlfriends by. It's to better illustrate and also, a better indication for me when put in numbers. So here goes nothing...
Total: 100
Looks - 20 points
20 pts - If u look like my idol, Ai Otsuka. =D
15-19 pts - Considered a school belle
10-14 pts - Average girl-next-door with pleasant enough looks
5-9 pts - Lacking in the looks department...
0-4 pts - You look like a gorilla =S
Plus pts - This gonna sound shallow but as with every normal male, if u have a devillish body, u'll definitely get plus points. =P
Character - 20 points
20 pts - Mother Theresa pales in comparison with you. *almost impossible lol*
15-19 pts - Good, ideal character with little flaws
10-14 pts - Acceptable character and should be able to live with just comfortably
5-9 pts - Obnoxious and rude ass >:(
0-4 pts - Scum of the earth *rofl* >:)
Minus pts - Bad habits such as biting your nails. Gawd, I hate that! I sat beside this babe on the train, and I was rather elated, until I noticed her rough unwomanly fingernails as she munched happily on her nails. Ewww!!!
Religious Faith - 20 points
20 pts - Well-balanced faith, able to stay relevant in the world without sounding preachy or domineering, esp. over her mate, yet providing strong spiritual support to her mate.
15-19 pts - Able to stay happy and engaged in the church with adequate faith to support the relationship in the spiritual aspect.
10-14 pts - A little complacency and reluctance once in awhile, but at the end of the day, remains strong in her faith.
5-9 pts - Wavering in her faith and may get into spiritual conflicts with her mate
0-4 pts - Non-christians, backsliders.
Minus pts - Over-enthusiastic Christian who talks about nothing but God, and berates her mate for not keeping up the charade with her. And on the other extreme, cultists? Goth? Satanic? *Shivers* Lol... :D
Acceptance of my character - 20 points
20 pts - Able to accept for who I am. Genuinely cares for me, esp. with my chronic illnesses ongoing, and loves me no matter what happens.
15-19 pts - Still able to accept for who I am, but occassionally becomes burdened having to live with my circumstances, but still loves me at the end of the day.
10-14 pts - Still able to accept for who I am, but occassionally has to attend to her own life's problems, inspite of my circumstances.
5-9 pts - Barely able to accept my character. Superficial relationship without much emotional and spiritual support.
0-4 pts - You musta hate me to the core. And care nuts about my life. =S
Common interests - 20 points
20 pts - We can speak in Japanese together, play computer games together, sing together, go on vacations together without conflicts in interests, and just have a helluva fun together!
15-19 pts - Slight difference in interests but the main focus remains united. For instance, my girlfriend may like big modern Japanese cities, whereas I prefer the quiet Japanese countryside.
10-14 pts - May or may not have the same interests. But even if she doesn't, she'll be tolerant of my interests and support me in them.
5-9 pts - Distaste for my interests and try her every means to convert me to her own interests.
0-4 pts - We're living in totally different worlds... If we can't click... What's the point then!?
I'd probably seriously consider attempt to chase the girl if she hits at least 70 points. As u can see, by not being a Christian, it's almost certain that I'll not consider non-Christians. Unless she's really THAT perfect a person to score almost full marks for the rest of the categories.
Just from the top of my head, most girls I've met thus far in my life, don't even hit 50 points of my criteria. Even my crushes and infatuations over the course of my life, probably hit slightly above 50, maybe slightly over 60. Still not good enough for me to seriously consider taking time and effort to engage in this whole BGR thing.
But even if I do meet a girl who passes my criteria, I'll need to pass 3 stages of my own to be fair to the girl.
1) I can promise to myself and God she'll be the only woman I'll look at for the rest of the life. I've got a rather bad problem of a roving eye, so I gotta work hard on this. =S
2) Get my health back on track cos' I do not want my woman to be the protector in the relationship.
3) Get myself on a good stable spiritual platform to handle BGR relationships in a Godly manner.
So there u have it... I can't believe I typed all that... But oh well... =)
posted by MightyFlameboy.
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